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3 LEVEL of LOVE
In love, there are 3 levels of love.
Level 1: All about ME
Level 2: Conditional Love
Level 3: Love without conditions
When someone at level one, which he thought was his own. He
just wants what he wants aka spoiled and childish. It's all about me.
If someone was at it, he will impose his will for any change
to be the way he wants. Example sentences are often thrown is: "How to aware
playgirl", "How to make a cool girl so cool ga", "How to
make a quiet girl so much talk", "How how to make a girl who hates so
love".
At this level, a person will STRIVE desperately to change
for the sake of others to be the way he wants. He will feel he is a PATRIOT
LOVE, when he was PATRIOT EGO. Alter ego for others.
Love is not about struggling to change other people. Love is
about TOTAL REVENUE will be others.
When someone at the level of this, he will feel the heavy
burden and tremendous stress because of her life will be full of struggle. He
was tired but had to keep fighting "for the love" is actually without
realizing it was for the sake of ego.
He will fight to change the person with the word "can
for the sake of love", and strive to maintain the love that he had got.
If he fails, he wanted to commit suicide because he felt his
great struggle has been wasted.
If you ever feel that way, you are at level 1 in love.
LEVEL 2:
At this level, a person would be more effective because he
no longer impose its will too. But he would behave like a MERCHANT. He will
give love to the terms and contracts. "If you are unfaithful, I'm
faithful". "If you're good, I'm too good". "If you're cool,
I'm too cool".
At this level, "the struggle of love" might not be
too much longer because a person is more able to accept others BUT WITH TERMS
and CONDITIONS.
Here is the problem.
Someone who loves the condition will experience a lot of
drama and politics, because love is on SALE. A person will not be free and
comfortable to be himself having to comply with the terms and conditions of
other people. Love is not so comfortable, but just be a competition, a
"game".
Both seem to love each other but diam2 hypocrite for not
being themselves in order to maintain the terms and conditions.
That's why a lot going on infidelity. Front looks sweet, so
take the stress behind convenience only obtained from the affair.
Love is like a golden cage with the proviso that looks
beautiful but imprisons the soul.
If you ever feel this way, you are at level 2 in love.
LEVEL 3:
At this level, a person with a genuine LOVE ONLY CARES. He
will receive a total of a person. If someone loved with a love without
condition, then the person will feel a relief. He will be FREE to be himself,
good or bad, without a mask, without the bullshit. This is where the power of
unconditional love.
If you love someone unconditionally, someone who receives
your love will be FREE to be himself and feel really loved sincerely. That is
where the beauty of love. Therein COMFORT located. Therein END of the BEGINNING
of the struggle of love and love PLEASURE.
"You can be yourself what it is, I can be myself what
it is, and we accept each other and love each other."
It was enough.
So if someone is not sincere then easily deceived?
Not so.
SINCERELY When you love someone and the person receiving it
is, then you WILL NOT make sacrifices. You simply love as best YOU.
Makes you hurt, feel cheated is because YOU do something
BEYOND LIMITS ABILITY that you consider to be your SACRIFICE, so that when the
"sacrifice" your unrequited, you feel cheated.
Love is not about sacrifice, any sacrifice because there is
always a desire to GET REPLY. If you love, then you're sincere. To be sincere,
then give LIMIT THE ABILITY TO FIT so you do not feel a loss when it is not
reciprocated.
When you SINCERELY, someone will appreciate your gift. If
you sacrifice, someone will treat you as they please.
So what if it is sincere but love with someone we love do
not go to respond and seem indifferent extraordinary?
If that's the case, then HE IS RECEIVED. If he's cool, you
just walked away, rather than trying to transform them into someone who fit
your desires.
Moving away does not mean stop loving, but you just love her
from afar.
LOVE has no limits, but there is a limit TIME. Therefore,
use your time to the people you RESPOND, than waste time to make a cool person
to respond to you.
After all, if you succeed in changing people's attention so
cool, he will not care too long. When TRICKS and "GAME" you
uncovered, then he will be back cool. After all, love is all about comfort. Is
it comfortable to hold in order to make a person hypocritical ignorant so
attention? whether WORTH?
The most beautiful thing in this world is when you can be
with people who love you for what it is and you're free to be yourself with
them what it is currently.
Her reality, not everyone can accept you for what it is.
Take your time to search for and pass the ONLY time with those who accept you
for what it is. That is where the beauty of life. That is where the quality of
happiness are.
A question that is often asked about the level 3 love is,
"people who accept me is not the person's social status was higher than
me. I want a more rich, famous and beautiful to be able to accept me. How's
that?"
Her answer is to develop your character in order to FIT with
them what you want, rather than trying to CONVERT them unsuitable. In other
words, improve your character.
But one thing to note, increasing the character NOT MEAN
turn yourself. Clothes can be changed, the appearance can be changed, the mind
can be changed, insight can be changed, but WHO YOU ACTUALLY can not be changed.
Therefore, upgrade your character as you wish ACCORDANCE so
you do not lose yourself in truth.
WHEN THE THIRD LEVEL MEET:
Level 1 + Level 1 = DISASTER
Level 1 + Level 2 = DRAMA
Level 1 + Level 3 = NOT LONG RELATIONSHIP
Level 2 + Level 2 = POLITICS
Level 2 + Level 3 = TREASON
Level 3 + Level 3 = TRUE LOVE
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Cheers!
-RF-
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