3 LEVEL of LOVE

3 LEVEL of LOVE

In love, there are 3 levels of love.

Level 1: All about ME

Level 2: Conditional Love

Level 3: Love without conditions

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 LEVEL 1:

When someone at level one, which he thought was his own. He just wants what he wants aka spoiled and childish. It's all about me.

If someone was at it, he will impose his will for any change to be the way he wants. Example sentences are often thrown is: "How to aware playgirl", "How to make a cool girl so cool ga", "How to make a quiet girl so much talk", "How how to make a girl who hates so love".

At this level, a person will STRIVE desperately to change for the sake of others to be the way he wants. He will feel he is a PATRIOT LOVE, when he was PATRIOT EGO. Alter ego for others.

Love is not about struggling to change other people. Love is about TOTAL REVENUE will be others.

When someone at the level of this, he will feel the heavy burden and tremendous stress because of her life will be full of struggle. He was tired but had to keep fighting "for the love" is actually without realizing it was for the sake of ego.

He will fight to change the person with the word "can for the sake of love", and strive to maintain the love that he had got.

If he fails, he wanted to commit suicide because he felt his great struggle has been wasted.

If you ever feel that way, you are at level 1 in love.

LEVEL 2:

At this level, a person would be more effective because he no longer impose its will too. But he would behave like a MERCHANT. He will give love to the terms and contracts. "If you are unfaithful, I'm faithful". "If you're good, I'm too good". "If you're cool, I'm too cool".

At this level, "the struggle of love" might not be too much longer because a person is more able to accept others BUT WITH TERMS and CONDITIONS.

Here is the problem.

Someone who loves the condition will experience a lot of drama and politics, because love is on SALE. A person will not be free and comfortable to be himself having to comply with the terms and conditions of other people. Love is not so comfortable, but just be a competition, a "game".

Both seem to love each other but diam2 hypocrite for not being themselves in order to maintain the terms and conditions.

That's why a lot going on infidelity. Front looks sweet, so take the stress behind convenience only obtained from the affair.

Love is like a golden cage with the proviso that looks beautiful but imprisons the soul.

If you ever feel this way, you are at level 2 in love.

LEVEL 3:

At this level, a person with a genuine LOVE ONLY CARES. He will receive a total of a person. If someone loved with a love without condition, then the person will feel a relief. He will be FREE to be himself, good or bad, without a mask, without the bullshit. This is where the power of unconditional love.

If you love someone unconditionally, someone who receives your love will be FREE to be himself and feel really loved sincerely. That is where the beauty of love. Therein COMFORT located. Therein END of the BEGINNING of the struggle of love and love PLEASURE.

"You can be yourself what it is, I can be myself what it is, and we accept each other and love each other."

It was enough.

So if someone is not sincere then easily deceived?

Not so.

SINCERELY When you love someone and the person receiving it is, then you WILL NOT make sacrifices. You simply love as best YOU.

Makes you hurt, feel cheated is because YOU do something BEYOND LIMITS ABILITY that you consider to be your SACRIFICE, so that when the "sacrifice" your unrequited, you feel cheated.

Love is not about sacrifice, any sacrifice because there is always a desire to GET REPLY. If you love, then you're sincere. To be sincere, then give LIMIT THE ABILITY TO FIT so you do not feel a loss when it is not reciprocated.

When you SINCERELY, someone will appreciate your gift. If you sacrifice, someone will treat you as they please.

So what if it is sincere but love with someone we love do not go to respond and seem indifferent extraordinary?

If that's the case, then HE IS RECEIVED. If he's cool, you just walked away, rather than trying to transform them into someone who fit your desires.

Moving away does not mean stop loving, but you just love her from afar.

LOVE has no limits, but there is a limit TIME. Therefore, use your time to the people you RESPOND, than waste time to make a cool person to respond to you.

After all, if you succeed in changing people's attention so cool, he will not care too long. When TRICKS and "GAME" you uncovered, then he will be back cool. After all, love is all about comfort. Is it comfortable to hold in order to make a person hypocritical ignorant so attention? whether WORTH?

The most beautiful thing in this world is when you can be with people who love you for what it is and you're free to be yourself with them what it is currently.

Her reality, not everyone can accept you for what it is. Take your time to search for and pass the ONLY time with those who accept you for what it is. That is where the beauty of life. That is where the quality of happiness are.

A question that is often asked about the level 3 love is, "people who accept me is not the person's social status was higher than me. I want a more rich, famous and beautiful to be able to accept me. How's that?"

Her answer is to develop your character in order to FIT with them what you want, rather than trying to CONVERT them unsuitable. In other words, improve your character.

But one thing to note, increasing the character NOT MEAN turn yourself. Clothes can be changed, the appearance can be changed, the mind can be changed, insight can be changed, but WHO YOU ACTUALLY can not be changed.

Therefore, upgrade your character as you wish ACCORDANCE so you do not lose yourself in truth.

WHEN THE THIRD LEVEL MEET:

Level 1 + Level 1 = DISASTER 

Level 1 + Level 2 = DRAMA

Level 1 + Level 3 = NOT LONG RELATIONSHIP

Level 2 + Level 2 = POLITICS

Level 2 + Level 3 = TREASON

Level 3 + Level 3 = TRUE LOVE

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Cheers!

-RF-